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California Gay Men Over 50, Meet Your Match

California is so long that a man in Eureka and a man in El Centro technically share a state and nothing else. 50 Gay is a dating site for gay men over 50, with members from the redwoods to the desert. Joining is free, so start with the men close to you.

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Palm Springs, Hillcrest and Lavender Heights

Palm Springs is the obvious starting point, with the bars of Arenas Road and a Pride that takes over in November. In San Diego, Hillcrest is the heart of gay life and its parade runs along University Avenue each July. Sacramento has Lavender Heights and the volunteer run Lavender Library.

In San Francisco, the Castro is the best known neighborhood, though the city's gay bars are spread across several districts.

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Over the Grapevine for the Right Man?

Distances here are serious, so say in your profile whether you would cross town or cross the Grapevine for a date. Search near home first, Long Beach, Oakland or Riverside perhaps. A browse at the Lavender Library or a stroll through Balboa Park makes a relaxed first date with no loud music.

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The Golden State, Answered

Can I search San Diego, Sacramento or Fresno?

Yes. Search by state or city to look in San Diego, Sacramento, Fresno or anywhere else in California.

Are there social clubs for older gay men in California?

Yes. Prime Timers has chapters in the state, including San Francisco and Santa Barbara, and the Fellowship of Older Gays runs social activities in person and online.

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